2008年1月23日水曜日

"マザコン" in Japan!!

There are boys who are "マザコン" in Japan.
A "マザコン" is a boy who loves their mother so much than their girlfriend or wife.I never had a boyfriend who is one, but hear that they are a headache.It isn't that much trouble when your not married with him. In Japan, some married couples live with one of their parents. When you marry a husband who is a "マザコン", and live with his mother, it will be a disaster. Many couples get divorced by this problem. Most of it is from "嫁姑問題". When a problem happens between the wife and mother, the husband protects the mother, so the wife gets very lonley.
Then why do this problem happen? It's because the mother now a days protect their children so much, that they can't be independent when they grow up. The mothers can't are also worry about their children too much.
But did you realise? Their are more "マザコン" girls than boys in Japan. But because they are girls, it is not said to be unpleasant. In my group, we talked about these question. In America is it a problem?
I heard that in Italy the divorce rate is very low. This is because most the boys are "マザコン". I think this is a very serious topic. If it increases, declining birth rate won't recover.