2007年12月19日水曜日

Marriage and divorce in Japan!!

In Japan, the marriage rate is going down these years. This is because women are working just like man do now a days. People are loving their job more than having their own family. And there is no good law to support young couples to get married. Like the maternity leave, child care center, and also there are lots of transfer in Japan. This makes it difficult for people who both have jobs to get married.
The answer to why the divorce rate is rising is also because women is having a job now. And have a way to earn money. Years ago, when women were thougt to administer their husband and stay home, they couldn't divore. It was too risky. They didn't have a job, so couldn't live alone. It was very interesting when I saw the low divorce rate in Italy. I first thought that it was a very passion country. But the truth was that the marriage rate is very low because most men is oedipus complex in Italy. This was very funny, but the high prices are making this phenomenon. If the goverment wants more high birth rates, they should think again about why these problems are happening.
For my own opinion, I would rather have a family than having none. My plan is to get married in the middle of my 20's. And have two children. Still, I won't give up working. I don't think I could work as before getting married. But I could compromise a little. Half of my friends think they want to get married. Half doesn't. I asked them why. Most of them answered, getting married is troublesome to your carrier. From this I think there is two types of women now. Those who want to have a family and those who want a carrier. I don't think either is wrong. It depends on what kind of person you are and want to be. For plus information, when I asked my boy friends when they want to get married, most answered when they could afford it.

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